Friday, October 5, 2012

Anam Cara: Friends In Silence

This book has been with me for almost a decade now.
One of my most formative books, without me realizing it.
"One of the tasks of true friendship is to listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences.  Often secrets are not revealed in words, they lie in the depth of what is unsayable between two people.  In modern life there is an immense rush to expression.  Sometimes the quality of what is expressed is superficial and immensely repetitive.  A greater tolerance of silence is desirable, that fecund silence, which is the source of our most resonant language.  The depth and substance of a friendship mirrors itself in the quality and shelter of the silence between two people."

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